You do understand the sort of sense of duty I feel, though. My in-state siblings and in-laws are about an hour away (and strikingly near each other), although they don't visit very often, just because the parents live so far from everything else. I admit if I did set up my own apartment the logical spot for me would be about 30 to 45 minutes away too, and visits would be ... Well, they moved so they're inaccessible to everything somehow.